Every human is different and every human has its own like and dislikes. These are the few things we can’t change but the most we can do is improve ourselves. Every human has its own traits, abilities, habits, manners, etc. adding all these things together makes him what he is. But there are several habits of a human which another human doesn’t like. Whether the person is doing intentionally or unintentionally. A person not liking or disliking someone else’s habits is called pet aversion. But the main reason to write this article was to tell my pet aversions.
Things which I don’t like in humans
When it comes to talking about that, there is a large number of things which I don’t really like. But the habit which I hate the most is backbiting. Backbiting is something which I really can’t tolerate, especially when the person backbiting is my own friend. I believe that if you have any problem with me or I did something wrong, you should have the guts to come and say it to my face. I also believe that saying the something behind my back won’t change that habit of mine, but saying it on my face would make me realize and might change that habit of mine. There is no benefit of talking behind someone’s back, you are not going to gain anything apart from hating the person even more. Therefore, do something which would solve the situation between the two rather than hating him more.
Another thing which I really don’t like in humans is selfishness. I believe a person who is selfish and always thinks about himself will never succeed in life. If you think of others rather than yourself, it will help you gain more respect and loyalty from others. If people think that considering yourself over others will make you more successful, then I think you are wrong. And moreover, even if you succeed, the people won’t respect you. And in my opinion, I would rather choose respect from others rather than getting successful but not in a legit way.
As said before, a human has many traits and habits. But the good thing about it is that humanity has the capability to improve those traits and habits. But not improving them may lead you to success but it won’t lead you to get respect from others. Not improving your traits will lead you to the wrong path no matter whether you think it’s the right path or not.